• Kimmy Foskett in Dating

    Here's Exactly How Guys Who Like You Will Flirt With You

    Here's Exactly How Guys Who Like You Will Flirt With You

    Flirting is an art form. As with works of art, flirtations can be visual (the rarely successful lustful wink), auditory (a well-crafted joke), and even performative (a casual strut by a certain desk at work, even though it's not on your way to the bathroom). There's modern flirting — a “you up?” text — and there's more classic flirting, like an […]
  • Kimmy Foskett in Sex

    How To Stop Feeling So Ashamed Of Masturbating If You're A Woman

    How To Stop Feeling So Ashamed Of Masturbating If You're A Woman

    For men, masturbation is a straight up rite of passage. It feels like every blockbuster comedy has a joke about a suburban mother coming to terms with her pubescent son's “crusty sheets,” and every male comic has a bit about “yanking it” to porn. Lady comics definitely talk about touching themselves, too, but society as a whole really likes to pretend […]
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    How To Ask Someone Out On Bumble When You're Finally Ready To Meet IRL

    How To Ask Someone Out On Bumble When You're Finally Ready To Meet IRL

    Here's the thing about making the first move: When you've done it once, it's easy to do it a second time. As a lady on Bumble, you have to make the first move by messaging the cutie you connected with first, so you've already done the hardest part by the time you decide to figure out how to ask […]
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    4 Foolproof Ways To Get Yourself Turned On Quickly

    4 Foolproof Ways To Get Yourself Turned On Quickly

    Bodies are weird. Sometimes, a body gets hot and bothered by a billboard featuring Oscar Isaac on the commute home, and other times a body fails to get revved up even though it's finally copulating with its crush of a year. Yes, I am in fact talking about my body, as I have gotten turned on […]
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    How To Get Rid Of Morning Breath Before You Have Morning Sex

    How To Get Rid Of Morning Breath Before You Have Morning Sex

    If you are fortunate enough to be indulging in morning sex, do yourself a solid and don't sabotage it with a mouth that radiates stuck-in-your-gums-overnight-sashimi and eau-de-next-day-Chardonnay. (I definitely just gagged a little.) You had a great date followed by a great sleepover; with great power comes great responsibility, you dig? There's no place for morning breath in morning sex. […]
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    Women Reveal How They Knew They Actually Orgasmed For The First Time

    Women Reveal How They Knew They Actually Orgasmed For The First Time

    Ah, the elusive female orgasm. Nobody seems to understand it. There are books, studies, articles, and movies about it. Certain fictional movies would have women believe that they should be able to come at the push of a button (clitoris) oh-so conveniently, exactly as their male partner is reaching his pinnacle O face. Porn propels that same […]
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    5 Subtle Signs You Aren't Over Your Ex Just Yet

    5 Subtle Signs You Aren't Over Your Ex Just Yet

    You to your friends: “I'm so over my ex.” Totally. You're so over your ex that you don't follow them on Instagram anymore. You're so over them that when they posted on LinkedIn about their sweet new job at Google, you didn't even notice. You're so over them that you threw away (burned) that last T-shirt of theirs you […]
  • Kimmy Foskett in Dating

  • Kimmy Foskett in Dating

    11 Tricks To Make A First Kiss So Amazing, Your Date Will Do Anything For A Second

    11 Tricks To Make A First Kiss So Amazing, Your Date Will Do Anything For A Second

    Guys, how bad was, like, all of the kissing on The Bachelorette this season? OK, so I only watched the finale, but still, I was appalled by the weird inside-of-bottom-lip-to-chin action hot Peter gave Rachel. Also, why was Bryan licking the roof of her mouth? (Eric and his beard are perfect, and I'm just going to believe his […]
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    This Is The Secret To Keeping The Sex Hot In Your Long-Term Relationship

    This Is The Secret To Keeping The Sex Hot In Your Long-Term Relationship

    Here's a causality dilemma for you: Which came first, the relationship or the sex? Some couples originate as a lusty, post-wedding, one-night stand that just keeps going, while other couples wait to copulate until it's post-their own wedding. (Hashtag gasp.) Whatever your desired order of events, the sex is necessary to the relationship. Sex can make or break a relationship, […]
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    3 Excuses The Guy Who's Not Ready To Commit Will Tell You

    3 Excuses The Guy Who's Not Ready To Commit Will Tell You

    To borrow the words of Matthew McConaughey, “all right, all right, all right,” not all men are liars. That said, there are definitely guys out there who will make excuses about why he won't commit to you rather than serving you the truth straight up like a whiskey neat (which is also what I imagine MM sips after […]
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    5 Subtle Signs You're About To Be Broken Up With, So Prepare Those Sad Playlists

    5 Subtle Signs You're About To Be Broken Up With, So Prepare Those Sad Playlists

    Breakups make kind and responsible people stay in bed for days, booze too much, and become terrible at friendship. I know this because a friend recently went through a late twenties breakup — what I call a “diet divorce” — and admits to doing all of those things. I also know this because I have done the same […]